Monday, October 10, 2011

..Something To Say~

The consequences of what we speak are so great that our words can lead us to ruin or build lives.

It’s been estimated that a talkative person may speak 30,000 words a day. But the important question is how do our words, whether few or many affect others?

Have you been with someone who usually speaks discouragement and pain to
someone? Or someone who usually says those words you wanted to hear but the person’s actions does otherwise? Many people can say I love you and I miss you but their actions crash your heart and betray you behind your back. They can say promises but in the end they will just leave you and walk away. Leaving you alone, full of false hopes and worst hurt!

Some of us sometimes spend more time bragging about what we are planning to do for our future but not actually doing it.  Others just simply say promises but have no intentions of doing. A person who blurts out words without weighting the effect on them.

Have you met these types of persons? Or are we guilty being one of them?

Different situations but one culprit..Words..Our words can justify us or condemn us.

 Hearing it can give us joy; it can bless and express happiness within us. It can dispel sorrows, heal wounds and removes despair. Words with love can always mend a broken heart and cure a deaf heart.

But these same words can be used to curse and break hearts, destroy reputations, create strife, break stable relationships and set families apart.Painful words can hurt more and it can ruin one’s whole being. What we say can either build up or breakdown the soul of whomever we are speaking to.

Before we talk let us always remember we are speaking to the same person like us. Let us think first before we speak. The person we are speaking too can also feel loved or hurt. We can cause destruction to someone’s life or mend a broken heart. We can give joy to a lonely soul or end up giving someone despair. 
Let us always remember: Kind Words Can Give A Lift To A Heavy And Wounded Heart..but it will be useless unless we mean it :)

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43 comments:

  1. yey! The post title is my blog title. hehe. Yay! I remembered, I'm so talkative when I was young haha! That's why now, I learned to choose the proper words to say. I really think twice before I say something.

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  2. @ChaCha-hahaha..I know you would say so sissy..at oh di ba you are the first to comment pa..True sissy..our words are so important..it can give love or hurt someone..so it would be best to choose every words that we say :) *hugs*

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  3. I agree with you Sie; "What we say can either build up or breakdown the soul of whomever we are speaking to."
    Your words either gives you good impression or bad, so it's your own choice... :)
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  4. Hi! I was thinking about doing one post like this yesterday,:)but my heart felt that someone can describe it well and ikaw yun sis, this is more clear and well-explained friend :)

    Words can give life, but it can take away ones life too.. So be careful..:)

    Busy few days? Have a nice day!:)Take care too!

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  5. @Asma Khan-hello Asma..I agree with you too..it is always our choice how to use it.Thank you for visiting :)

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  6. @Sagitarrian-Hello Rosalinda..I was not busy po..I was sick for the past few days kaya I was not able to visit some blogs sis..thank you sis..how we say this words can really build or ruin one's life..it can be destructive and usually we ourselves are victims.

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  7. You seem to speak my mind... always...!!
    The other day I and my friend was talking about how words can never be taken back and so how important it is to speak right...
    Its strange how one thing wrongly said changes everything.. yet no one takes care to say the truth and not hurt anyone in the process...
    its takes just 3yrs for child to learn to talk.. but i guess it takes a lifetime to understand how to talk...
    Thanks for sharing this post sis...
    It was something (you can say a reminder) that i needed right now..
    Lots of love...
    mwwaaaacccchhhh

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  8. so true Ate Sie.. words are very powerful... kaya nga it is advise na to think twice before stating any words....

    >> less talk, less mistakes

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  9. Oh sorry to hear that you got sick sis.:( Are you ok now? Ingat ka lagi..:) God bless you and your family!:)

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  10. Hey Sweet Sie! <3
    this post is so true And I hope i'm not one of those people. Sometimes I try to speak kind words to my mom, but the next thing it turns out to be insulting lool. Sometimes my reactions may be disturbing too. I wish i didn't make anyone sad. But I guess all humans have some kind of misunderstanding between each other. It can't be just perfect, since we are not perfect. This post is a good reminder for everyone. And I love the pictures so cute! I'm saving one of them. Anyhoo.
    Have a nice day <3
    Luvs from me
    xxx =3

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  11. @Madhulika-hello Sis..your so right..words can never be taken back..we should always be careful on every word that we say..it changes someone's life big time..rude words can even destroy one's outlook in life. Nice point sis..it takes a lifetime to learn how to talk..and to add up..knowing when is the right time to talk..ohhh many blah blah from me..just this sis *hugs*hahaha.. :)

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  12. @FerryJhoi-hello Ferry..yes words are so powerful..and it can cause pain or brings true happiness to our innermost being. Thank you for visiting Ferry :)

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  13. @Sagitarrian- ok na ako sis thank you..wiggling again hahaha..I just got tired and my heart went aray ouch again..God bless you too :)

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  14. @Black Pearl-Hello Dana..I agree..and sometimes I am also one of those people though just sometimes hehehe..I sometimes say words unintentionally and I end up hurting them..I guess every person in this world is guilty of saying words that have hurt someone somehow.

    But what I can be proud of myself is I learned to always keep my promises. I have been a victim of false hopes so I know how painful it is..so I'd rather not do it to anyone.

    This is actually a reminder to all of us..

    Thank you for visiting sis..yes you can save all those pix you love..I am glad to share it to everyone..love lots sis :)

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  15. In life we meet all sorts of people, just we need to filter the good and not the very good ones.

    However, we cannot avoid some of the type of personalities you have mentioned, so I just learn to keep quite and let them be what they are.

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  16. Well-written and expressive! :)

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  17. @NAva K.-your right Ms.Nava..Thank you for visiting :)

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  18. I'm one person who talks a lot, and I know for sure I have hurt some, or many, in the past...day by day I pray to delevelop the skill of not saying a hurtful word or words to someone. I miss you Sie!

    I'm linking this to my blog ha..

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  19. @Joy Mendiola-Hello po Ms.Joy..I miss you too po Ms.Joy..I have been sick po lately kaya I need really to rest po..so I was not able to visit you for a week po..

    I also talk a lot Ms.Joy but usually to certain groups of people..I am a shy person in real life specially on gatherings po..

    Yes Ms.Joy you can link any of my post to your site..thank you po :)

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  20. *munching chocos*

    i'm not talkative..i'm vewy silent and reserved and *munch munch*..when i put my lips like this, i want..hmmmmmm..*wide grin*

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  21. Hi Sie! My first in your blog. You have a lovely blog. Have cruised down the posts and found them interesting. You express yourself quite simple and honest. That, in any language, is the best way to write. :-)

    Blessings to you and your family.

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  22. @Beany-well yes I can say your not talkative..*thinking*??..I'll just munch chocos with you..hehehe..

    when you put your lips like that on my last pix, you want..hmmmmmmm..you want to play actionary?? let's see with your mouth like that..aha your acting like an angry bird??..or nemo..did I get it right??..hahaha..just joking..I'll whisper it to you later..how many??..Unli?? hahaha.. *blink*

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  23. @Ellen-hello Ms.Ellen..thank you so much for reading my posts po..thank you for visiting :)

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  24. I felt how it was like to be on both sides
    be it the one..listening or does the talking
    hurting and the one who hurts..
    its amazing how words...can simply do that
    I must be more careful now...^_^

    im backk...chanan!!!!!^_^

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  25. Hi Sie, how are you? I am very talkative and I smiled at the thought na i get to speak at least 30,000 words per day! I guess we're opposites... siguro if I get to meet you too, lilibre kita... ng stories... hehehe... thanks for dropping by!

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  26. @Clai- I also talk a lot Clai but I usually choose those persons whom I open up to. I had experiences of trusting too much and letting them know even my personal secrets but in the end they betrayed me..so from then on..I was so careful na..I'm glad your back Clai and looks like your ok na..*hugs* :)

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  27. @Pinx- hello Pinx..namiss kita dito sa site ko ha..I'm ok na po..I am also talkative Pinx but it depends on the person I am talking with..I am friendly but choosy hehehe..oo naman when will meet in person you can treat me with your stories and I'll treat you with drinks so you won't get thirsty hahaha..joke lang po..kiss me kay baby Job ha..1 year old na sya bilis ng panahon Pinx :)

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  28. hi sie, this is quiet a powerful topic to post just after you recovered from ill health...
    hope your writings does not affect your thinking.. think light.. ..
    nobody's perfect, those who forgive gets forgiven when his turn comes.. fair deal for a great life. have a nice day dear and take care :)

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  29. Hello Sie, it's good to utter our feelings in words but sometimes there are some things better left unsaid - just my point of view dear :)

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  30. @Cooking varieties-hello Wan..no not at all..I know nobody is perfect and it was posted just a reminder to everyone..it has nothing to do with who I am, my past or present life..it is a general topic Wan. Thank you for visiting!

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  31. @Joy-hello po Ms.Joy..I agree po..some things are better left unsaid..ako rin as what they say action speaks louder than words..less talk..less mistakes..pwede yakap na lang hahaha..thank you Ms.Joy *hugs*

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  32. Words..either spoken or written...will give other people some clue what kind of person we really are. Nice post Sie!

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  33. @Christine-yes Christine I agree..thank you so much for passing by :)

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  34. My thoughts exactly, Sie! Good thing I'm not talkative..hehe... We should really be careful of what we say, as these can make or break our relationships. Once those words escape our mouths, there's no holding back.

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  35. @Pepperrific Life- Hello Peps..yes you have said it right..we should be careful because once said our words can make or brake any relationship..thank you for visiting ;)

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  36. Nice post. Words can be so inspiring or damaging. Thanks for following my blog. You have a nice blog. Following yours now.

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  37. @Suzy-thank you so much Ms.Suzy hope to see you visit me again..thank you :)

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  38. Ms.Sie how r u?????? I'm sorry its been so long we had a good peaceful chitchat. How are my little playmates ?? hows your life now?? hmmmmmmm Am I forgetting something????....... Nice post Ms.sie, I too agree we should really consider kind words given by our parents , friends and beloved ....

    *Hugs hugs* miss u ......... :(

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  39. @Sudhi- helllllooo.. Sudhi..mwahhhh..I miss so much..your playmates are so ok Sudhi..I am happy Sudhi.. quiet angel and I are ok and he is still cute hehehe..I agree with you Sudhi..love you Sudhi :)
    miss
    *hugs hugs* miss you too :)

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  40. I think everybody is one of those people at some point in their life. Of course, we need to realize when we have these moments and when we take people down and make sure that we avoid doing it in the future.

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  41. @Andreea-your right sis..there are times when we hurt someone unintentionally..so the best part of it is avoiding and thinking first before we utter those words and repeating the same mistake again :)

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