Saturday, May 28, 2011

..When My Heart Speaks**

“There is no perfect relationship, but loving and accepting each others imperfections makes a relationship worth keeping.” "Love never assures long days,months and not even years because love won’t fade if it is true and taken care of.”

True love they say is just an illusion and it doesn’t exist. But for me I know and BELIEVE that it is real and it can only happen once. When can you say that it is true love and if he is the right one?

It is true love if you are willing to love, respect, trust, understand and accept the Whole him. "He will be the most important person.” True Love always Involves Commitment.” Being faithful and trusting someone despite the distance.

In a relationship there can always be misunderstandings along the way and adjustments are very important. All of us have flaws and all of us have been created differently. Willing to adjust and understanding each others weaknesses is an important part to save and stay in a relationship..Oooopppsss.adjusting and not changing one’s self to please a person so don’t get me wrong my friends.

There is a big difference between adjustment and change. Adjustment is giving each other a chance to adapt to some differences that you have, learning and allowing both of you to grow and mature together. Change is different because if one wants someone to change just to let him or her feel and prove his love then it is not true love. True love is accepting the whole him and not making him change for you!  Believing that he loves you and not hurting him in any way!


It is true love when he gives time and effort to be with you when you needed him the most.He makes you feel loved even through phone or appreciate the most simple things that he could give.


When you feel Contented and Happy with a person. When you stop asking too many questions because you know you can trust him and what matters is him loving the true you.

 My “quiet angel”: We have small misunderstandings but look we are still here holding on. I know we will make it because our chain of love is stronger and "We Will Grow And Mature Together.”

I have been sick these past few days.But you have never left me.You have always been there making me smile and making me happy.Hearing your voice on the phone made me stronger and love you more.I can feel your love despite the distance.

"My quiet angel" THANK YOU for giving me love More Than the LOVE that I Should Deserve.I love you :)
**I will be True to the Promise I have made,to YOU and to the One who gave you to me..

Thursday, May 26, 2011

~Our Best Choice..

"Don’t let the regrets of yesterday destroy your hopes and dreams for a new and better tomorrow."

I was reading yesterday a post of one of my new friends in blogging. Her post said I should let you go so I can start a new beginning. A simple quote but indeed it is true.

How can you start something new if you are still expecting your old past to come back and holding on to your feelings? How can you move on if your are still not letting go even the past memories when you are with him? How can you say you have finally given him up if you are continuing to find someone and comparing them to the qualities of your old past? How can you say you have finally let him go if you are still dwelling and digging up those past thoughts you were together? How could you let go if you are still full of regrets?

 
We may have made poor choices that have caused our heartaches and pain. Life may have been unfair. Perhaps we feel that we have blown it, that our lives is in shambles and beyond repair. People may have betrayed, abused caused pain in our lives, but SHOULD Our Lives STOP There?
It is easy to let go if your past has been full of wrenching heartache and pain. It is hard to let go if you have given all your love to someone and yet left you alone in the end. We all can look back and see things in our lives that we wish we would have done differently. But we can’t do anything about what’s gone, but we can do great deal about what remains.

We must stop dwelling on it and stop digging those past hurts again. To be able to let go we must Avoid talking about our old past and learn to Forget about it. Let past be the past. Don’t live in regret. Don’t live and carry the pain year after year and on every new relationship, the relationship will surely fail again and again.

Let it go. God has something new in store for us. “When God allows one door to close, He will surely open another door for you, something better.” God knows what is the best for us and the right person for us. We need not struggle and find someone who deserves our love; he will just come on God’s perfect timing. We just have to patiently wait. “We just have to believe that God will turn our disappointments to reappointments.”

Let us learn to quit living in a negative frame of mind, dwelling on something that is OVER and DONE. “We can’t put a question mark where God has put a period.” "Focus on what we can do to change, rather than on what we should have and could have.”

 Our life depends on our own Choices in our lives. Circumstances just come and go no matter how painful it is, there will always be a reason and a learning experience behind. “We can’t blame on the circumstances or experiences that we had no matter how painful it was, it will always be our choice on how we deal with it.” Will we end up a Whiner because of regrets on our old past or will we end up a Winner because we have chosen to move on and believe that God has the BEST things in store for us.” :)

~~This song is for all of US who have decided to Let Go and Move On~~
~~We Can make It As Long As We Have Each Other~~

Thursday, May 19, 2011

..Moving on~

Last night I was alone inside my room. Every 10 p.m. I would always go to the other room to pray and listen to music while waiting for my quiet angel and I to talk on the phone. Suddenly I found myself sad and crying.

I remembered my past hurts as I prayed. I found myself asking the Lord am I a bad person to experience such trials in my life? I am an only child but  since childhood I was abused physically. I had miscarriage because of my ex husband, my children and I were physically and emotionally hurt by him, pressures on my annulment process ( hopefully it will be finished this month or early June yehey) and I have a heart ailment. These things have made me weak to go on my life’s journey.

When my quiet angel and I talked on the phone he asked me why am I crying? I told him and asked him.” Hon am I a bad person to have these heavy trials? Why me?” He said, “Hon He gave you those trials because He knows you can handle it.” “You are not a bad person because He gave you your two lovely kids who are kind and intelligent, He gave you your parents.”


My quiet angel is right I failed to see how God has also always been they’re comforting me and giving me persons to help me to be strong. Sometimes we tend to focus on our trials in life and failed to see the reasons and lessons behind each obstacle in our lives.

Lesson Learned: No matter what you’re going through, if you look hard enough and keep the right attitude, you can always find something good about the experience. God gives adversity to test our faith and mould us to whom He wants us to be. Everything in life has it’s own purpose no matter how painful it maybe.All of us has been given Chances in Life and Love.It will always be our CHOICE to stop or move on, to hold on or let go.

My CHOICE is to hold on because of the love that I have for my kids and my quiet angel. Not only for them but also for myself because one day I know God will answer my prayers. I don’t mind having a successful career or riches in life. What I always prayed and wanted was to have a happy and complete family.

I’ll always thank God for giving me you my quiet angel. Thank you so much for loving me.You always say I have not done anything but just the thought of you loving me made me feel blessed to have you in my life. thank you so much AND “ I love you”.




Monday, May 9, 2011

``more than a promise...

I may not get to see you as often as I like. I may not get to hold you in my arms all through the night. But deep in my heart I truly know, you're the one that I love, and I can't let you go!!!

It is again our special day and I was thinking of something just to make you feel special in my own simple way. I may not be there with you and I maybe miles away but I am always thinking everyday how to make you feel loved and special.

Many women have said to you sweet promises but I am different from them. What I give you are not promises that are made to be broken. What I am giving and willing to give you is a lifetime guarantee of TRUE LOVE.

I am only a simple woman, I am not perfect but I guarantee I WILL DO MY BEST to be nearly perfect for you. I will learn, walk an extra mile for you and even travel across the miles just to be with you.

  I guarantee that I won’t hurt you in anyway. I have been hurt before so I know how it feels to be hurt. I guarantee that I will do my best NOT TO MAKE YOU CRY.You always said I am perfect for you.Allow me to say YES, I AM THE RIGHT ONE FOR YOU..

I guarantee that I will RESPECT You.. AND WILL ALWAYS BE FAITHFUL TO YOU. We are in a long distance relationship but you can TRUST ME because I WILL NEVER BETRAY YOUR TRUST IN ANYWAY.

I have a heart ailment and I can go anytime but I guarantee I WILL LOVE YOU TILL MY LAST BREATH.I don’t know till when will my life be but YOU WILL BE THE LAST MAN I WILL BE GIVING MY HEART TOO.


They have come and go but I WILL STAY FOREVER WITH YOU. How I would wish for you to STAY but even if you will find someone new, I guarantee that I can still be your friend and sister. One truth will still remain my unchanged heart owned only by you.

 You may say why do I love you this way? Because there is nothing wrong of GIVING ALL OF YOUR LOVE TO SOMEONE WHO DESERVES TO BE LOVED UNCONDITIONALLY :)

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I don’t care what people may say because at the end of the day it will only be me. Asking myself.. “Am I giving my all and doing everything to make him feel how much I love him?”And the answer would be yes and I have no regrets doing it..

It is just the Real Me

I was doing this post with tears in my eyes because…Every word that I said will forever be true....I will continue to hold on to your promise that one day you would come....I have never loved like this before and I will never again...I WILL WAIT FOR YOU BECAUSE I WILL FOREVER BE YOUR SIE..

***This song is for you my "quiet angel"...na higugma ta ka :)

                            



 

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