Sunday, February 26, 2012

..Tagged-Clai-*


I was tagged by one of my younger sis in blogging and since she is so close to me I couldn't escape to answer her tag questions and expose more secrets about my real self..But before doing this I would like to introduce to you Clai ~ this is her site~..she is also a Filipina like me and she has been one of my closest friends..the best quality that I like about her..she is so honest and fearless in sharing her inner views on love and life..a typical simple girl experiencing her ups and downs in life through her road of maturity. She has always treated me as her Ate (older sister) and listened to my advices..I hope those are right advices huhuhu..so Clai here are my answers to your tag questions ;)

  • How did you survived High School?
~ High school is one of the toughest times of my life. It was the time when all that I did was very well guarded by my parents. I was not allowed to wear my own clothes because my Mom would choose and I would wake up with my clothes hanging on my closet. I was not allowed to have friends. It was the time I was bullied in our school because I was so thin and pale. I even experienced some girls spitting on me while I was walking on our corridor and I was studying in an exclusive school so I never expected to be treated that way. How did I survived? Maybe because I never gave up on my dreams. Even if my classmates laughed and mocked me I never made it a hindrance to whom I wanted to be and just focused on my studies.

  • What and where is your ideal date?

    ~ My ideal date..just walking with my husband to be on a beach..singing songs together from sunrise till we see those stars twinkling at night is a romantic date for me..anywhere would do as long as I'm with him all my days would be perfect.

    • Do you prefer a surprise wedding proposal? Why?
    • ~ It will be more exciting to receive a surprise wedding proposal..any woman wants it for sure *blink*
     
    • What is your favorite channel? Why?

    ~ I always love to watch Discovery channel since I was a kid..I am always into Science and I love reading National Geographics books while I am inside my father's office before.

    • What do you think about long distance relationship?
      ~ I am in a long distance relationship right now..honestly it is a bit hard because you have a limited chance to be with the person you love but distance can't stop two loving hearts that are destined to be together. Some say there are few chances for a long distance relationship to last but for me who is in it now I could say it will always depend on those persons building a relationship. As long as love and trust is there, a long distance relationship can lead to forever.


      • What was your greatest achievement so far?
      ~ I had the best career before but now I can say being a mother of my two cute kids is my greatest achievement.
      • What do you think about interracial marriage?
      ~ I have a friend who is in this type of marriage and I could say it is a bit hard because both should understand and adjust to each other's cultures, introducing their own ideas and customs. However, race for me has never been a question to someone who loves.
      • What do you think are the causes of infidelity? 
      ~ I think each individual has their own personal reasons..but the way I see it..because they don't love the person whom they are with..but then again I am also human and I never judged anybody ;)

        • Do you think the world will end this year 2012?
        ~ No, the world won't end this year..and wahhhhhhhhhhhhhh..no no no..many people have predicted that this year our world would end but I am not really focusing on it..I have heart failures and I can go anytime so the best thing I can do now is to focus and cherish each day that I have with my love ones.

        • What is love?
        ~ My own definition of love is when..someone learned to accept who you are including your past and imperfections..it is loving without any conditions of receiving same love in return..just holding on and waiting because you know his promises won't be broken..just letting go of those expectations and holding on to the love that you have promised because I love him so ;)

        I have done my assignment sis Clai..Thank you for reading ;)

        I just finished my daughter's reviewer for her exam so..I'll sleep now hihihi ;)

        Let us all have a Happy Sunday everyone *hugs* ;)


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          1. I learned a few new things I didn't know about you, Sis Sie ♥ I'm here to say hello, leave some love on your page and give you some extra *hugs* Muahhz! :-)

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            1. Hello Princess Fiona..some secrets about myself have again been revealed ;)..thank you for your visit Ate Fiona *hugs*..have a happy Sunday :)

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            2. hmp! i can give my Hon a lot lot lot of hugs and love not just some extras! hmp!

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            3. hahaha..Hon I know..and I can feel lot and lots of love from you..ssssssshhhhhh..Princess Fiona won't give you chocos hala..I'll just hug you hmmmmmmmmmm..ssssshhhhh ;)

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            1. Hello sis Izdiher..you are a lovely person too..that's why we are sisters *hugs hugs*..thank you for visiting me sis..keep smiling ;)

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          3. hi sie, firstly, i just love to see these wing flowers sort of flying slowly, being blown by the wind.. so sweet. so coolo and relaxing to watch..
            great interview, great questions and smart answers.. i guess your sis get great advice from you, you are a very experienced and compassionate lady. have a nice day sie

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            1. Hello Wan..*hugs hugs*...I have always love dandelions because they are a symbol of hope for me ;)..thank you for your kind words Wan..have a nice day too and smile..thank you for being our friend ;)

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          4. Great info about yourself... Now, we know;)Btw- thanks for the blog visit and comment.

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            1. Hello Ms.Jolly mwahhhhhhhh..my hon will surely smile seeing you here *hugs hugs*..pls.get well soon ;)

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          5. I understand why you are respected as an elder sister (also loved as younger one) here in the blogging world. I am learning a lot after coming in contact with much experienced bloggers who share words of wisdom.

            I have always been considered more mature and understanding than my age even when I was in school. But this kind of perception has always distanced me from people. I have always been the elderly sister figure even if I am younger in age. That is why it is a delight to interact with you. I learn a lot from your writings and have the sense of someone more experienced teaching me the lessons of life.

            I could never have imagined that I would have such associations with people, let alone in virtual world, with whom I can share these words which I never get to talk about.

            Thank you and it's a pleasure being a member of your blog community. Glad to know more about you and your views on various topics.

            Have a nice day! ^u^

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            1. Hello Sui..I never expected you will open up and share more about yourself here..Thank You..in my real world I have always been an elder sister to everyone giving also advices..I easily trusted everybody but I always ended up hurt..so many have betrayed me Sui and cheated behind my back..abused me if I can choose another word..maybe because I didn't fight back..I have always been quiet..the first time that I did fight back was having my annulment.

              Honestly Sui..I love blogging because it is here where I saw people who have learned to accept me of who I am..it is a place where I have no fears of expressing my true self..I will have my next poem this Thursday and my friends will know again another part of my real life..

              All of us have our own imperfections in life and we may be disappointed once in a while but then again this is a part of the lessons of life we must go through.

              Thank you Sui..all of us may not have met yet but I am so grateful because I have learned many lessons in life through each in one of you..Have a nice day too Sui ;)

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            2. I am surprised as well with how much I have revealed here. I am more tight lipped and aloof in the world outside the blog. Blogging has brought about that space wherein I could open up (a bit). Isn't it great to converse with understanding people even if it's in the virtual world? This proves that we are not bound by boundaries.
              I am lovin' it. ♥♥♥

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            3. I am a happy person in real life but I choose the persons whom I really get close with..maybe because of what I have been through..In my everyday life I only get to talk with my two kids and my hon on phone..no real close friends. It is really great Sui to have people who can at least relate to our real self through blogging..though I have always been careful so I usually ask advices from Ms.Fiona and sis Marie and some of my sisters here..thank you for your visit again ;)

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          6. Sie... I love the tag and how you've answered them..straight frm the heart.. you're a beautiful soul .. it's nice to know a little about you now :)

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            1. Hello Confused Soul..you're back weeeeee ;)..thank you and your tagged questions are next..I'll publish it next week..I have already made it and saved in my drafts..I just waited for your return..my friends will be knowing more of me again *blink*..thank you for your visit ;)

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          7. Thanks for sharing more about you sis..:) Thanks to clai..:) All questions are very interesting, love reading and reading your answer.. Thank you..:)

            Wonderful Sunday..:)

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            1. thank you and I have another one next week..thank you for your visit..have a wonderful Sunday too.

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          8. thank you for answering ate..i tagged you because i knew you will answer it very well..your'e the perfect person to share your points of view about it! ^_^♥

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            1. Hello Clai..your welcome..thank you for tagging me another set of questions because the tag questions given to you are much harder hehehe..I'm glad you liked it..thank you for your visit sis Clai ;)

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          9. Hiii sie,*waving hand*..it is always a joy for me to visit your site always:) that was interesting, btw (i love science too) ★. Glad to know more abt u sis..u're a wonderfull woman mashallah.& it's a pleasure being a member of your blog.. ♥

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            1. Hello monsoon..oh you changed your profile pix..I like it..so girly..yes I am always into science things..though I didn't follow my passion and dreams..I graduated with a course with Math as my main subjects huhuhu..thank you so much monsoon for visiting again and for your friendship *hugs* ;)

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          10. awwwwwwwww sisssssy, I can relate much to the long distance relationship ever. It was hard really but if you both want to work it out, you will do anything. Anything is possible. muaaah!

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            1. Hello sissy..yehey you're here..*hugs hugs*..I know you can relate because both of us are on a long distance relationship hihihi..anything is really possible sissy so when will you invite me on your wedding hihihi..sissy it's so ok I know your busy working so I understand if you can't visit me..I will always be an older sister to you ;)

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          11. Hey Sie =)
            Aww very sweet, I learned alot about you. Thanks for sharing Sie, High school was hard for me as well, I was bullied too. I enjoyed reading this.
            Take care sie, and have a nice day. =)
            xxx

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            1. Hello sis Dana..Elementary and High School is really hard for me..oh sad that you also went through it sis..but we did survived *blink*..thank you for visiting me and take care too ;)

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          12. Very nice to meet and know more about you.

            Happy Sunday ~

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            1. Hello Ms.Grace..thank you..have a happy day ;)

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          13. Hi Sie!!!! totally EXPOSED!!!!! big hugs to you...:))) have a good week!!!

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            1. Hello Rina..I have been tagged so many times..so I am really exposed but not really because many have not seen my real pix hehehe..have a good week too..thank you for your visit ;)

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          14. Hey sis, sorry I'm late. It's already Monday afternoon and I'm trying to catch up with my reading!

            Hope you had a great weekend!

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            1. hello Ate Asni..it's ok ate..have a great day Ate Asni..I'll visit your poem site now *hugs* ;)

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          15. *carrying an overflowing bag of chocos*
            look what i got fow you Hon! hihihi
            Did you misssss meee?? *blink blink*
            i'm back! *wiggle wiggle*
            and i can see -- that's you and me on a row row our boat! i'm a good swimmer like you, see?! i'm vewy bwave oh!

            you were a victim of tagging huh!..you want me to spank clai for this?
            *looking around*

            anyways, it's 'bout 11pm..let's go to lala land na.. *hugging pillow*
            ♥♥♥

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            1. weeeeeeeeee..mwahhhhhhhhhh..you're here Hon..yes I miss you here..thank you for visiting hon..*wiggle wiggle* hihihi..hahaha..Hon we both don't know how to swim..you're so cute there oh *blink*..

              Hon I have always been tagged ever since hahaha..our friends here wants to know more about me..it's ok..oh Clai..ok I'll call her and tell you want to spank her hahaha..

              hehehe..lala land?..ok let's go..welcome back Hon..I really miss you *hugs hugs* ♥♥♥

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            2. you can't spank me..! :p
              *hiding at ate sie's back*

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            3. don't worry Clai..he is a behaved boy now hihihi ;)

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          16. Always such a pleasure to read you Sie! High School issues, it feels like you describe what I have been through all along school life. Quite disturbing isn't it but look at you now my dear, a kind and loving woman, mum of two beautiful little ones and a true sister and friend.
            Wishing the long distance relationship become soon only a memory, so you can share this special love every day face to face.

            Much love to you.........and continue to enjoy each day, each pleasure. Nobody knows when our time will come. So let's live!
            xxxxxxxxxx

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            1. Hello sis Marie..I know you will say that hahaha..It is our high school club hehehe..but we survived those pains..thank you sis Marie..but I know those past experiences did make us more humble and kind..a little negative though because I had inferiority complex..but the best part is we learned to be more loving to all..

              Yes I wish too sis Marie..I really miss my Hon..weeeeeeee..I like what you said..sharing our special love face to face hihihi..*giggles* ;)

              Much love to you too sis Marie..thank you for your visit *hugs* ;)

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          17. Thank you for sharing a slice of your life!

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            1. hello Ms.Ann..thank you for your visit ;)

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          18. wow :) very well said Ate Sie :) ganda ng definition mo ng love!! nyahaha...

            >> am having my lunch while blogging :) ikaw din ate Sie, hwag papagutom!! mwahness

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            1. Hello Ferry..thank you..definition of love? weeeeeeee..that's my promise for myself too Ferry..sometimes we need to go our expectations and just let love move and make it's way to our hearts..this is one of the lessons that I learned..now I am ready to surrender everything..thank you Ferry..enjoy your lunch *hugs* ;)

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          19. Its nice to know a bit more about you by this post..:) Thanks for sharing:)

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            1. Hello Sonia..thank you for reading and for your visit ;)

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          20. Ouch I think I missed this- my blog reader has been acting up!! Thank you for sharing these insights into your life.

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            1. Hello Ms.Anjuli *hugs*..my dashboard has late updates too..sometimes my comments on other sites are disappearing ..thank you for your visit ;)

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          21. Hello sis =)
            I always love reading posts like this onecoz I learn a little bit more about about the author. And I love your answers, honest & straight from the heart. Lots more blessings your way. Have a lovely day =)

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            1. Hello sis ;)..thank you so much for your visit..have a lovely day too *hugs* ;)

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          22. Very honest sharing Sie and just to comment on long distance relationship - I have to agree with what you have said. Although both of us are in the same place and house but due to my hubby's work commitment, its sort of a long distance one too. At times we don't see each other for 1 week or two and during his peak time, I also don't get to spent much time with him.

            But that does not mean we stop loving each other and when we have the time to catch up, we cherish every moment of it.

            Take care Sie.

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            1. Hello Ms.Nava..oh you are in a long distance relationship too..I'm so happy when someone can relate to my experiences *hugs*..yes Ms.Nava just cherishing and being thankful for every moment that we have..thank you Ms.Nava..take care always too ;)

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