*Each day I am Learning..

True Happiness can't be found in wealth

because riches can be taken away.

Not in popularity and fame

for popular people can be forgotten.

Not in beauty or physical appearance

because it fades through time.

Not in intelligence or a successful career

because it doesn't make us a 

higher creation of God.

Instead True Happiness can be found in Contentment

with the things we have, from the Love

we give and get from people around us. And from

Faith in God who created us.

Let us all learn to cherish each day

Learn to value each person who loves us

Learn to appreciate the love they have given us

Because we may never know

We will be Missing Them The Moment We Wake Up.

♥Happy Birthday Marie ♫♫♫

I have lots of friends but their are only a few whom I call to be my sisters. Marie has been one of my sisters I met here in my virtual world. The first time I commented on her site it was a personal story of her life. I was so attached to her story because we are related in a way. As days go by I was everyday visiting her and just checking if she’s well. Now I can’t go on a day not passing by her site not just to read her post but also to send my hugs at night. Both of us are on a long distance relationship and her thoughts have always been like mine. She has always touched my life most specially when she drops by on my mail just to check if my kids, quiet angel and I are ok. She has never failed to tell me advices even if she knows I'll get hurt because she only wants what's best for me.  She has always been true to me every time she leaves a comment on my site..and she never misses any post 

weeeee.. ♥Thank You So Much Marie ♥

  On your birthday sis I wish you all the blessings in this world. I have met a lot of people in this world but only a few remained True. I have always valued my relationship with special persons like you. Thank you for being a sister to me. Thank you so much sis Marie.

 Friends kindly greet her on her site and bring your gifts. You may greet and follow her site  ♥blink♥ ..kindly click the link below..Thank You  ;)

Marie Harmony's Site - happy birthday

ok sis here is another gift from quiet angel and me..yehey *hugs*

and this soooooooooooo BIG weeeeeee ;)

♥ stronger inside ☺

*But think again..

 Smooth roads never

make good drivers.

Smooth seas never

make good sailors.

Clear skies never

make good pilots.

A problem free life never

makes a strong person.

Many of my friends here have known my real life stories. Each of my blessings and struggles in life has been written here in my site. All of you have been a witness of my ups and downs in life.

Of all the pains that I have been through sometimes I have said that life was so unfair. I have not harmed any people in my life but why it seems like the whole world has hated me. I have always questioned our Lord Why? BUT now I realized that God allowed these situations to happen in my life to make me strong inside.

               If I was not left alone. I won’t learn to love and value myself more.

If I was not left alone with my kids and if I didn't file an annulment  because of domestic violence

I won’t be this strong in fighting for our rights and loving them 

with the love that they should deserve.

If I didn’t let go. I should have lost the opportunity of loving someone

Who is worth more of my love.

If I have not experienced hurt and betrayal..I won’t learn to trust more.

If I didn’t give myself a chance to love. I wouldn’t realize that I was also

Worth of being loved in return.

If I didn’t hold on to the  love that I have now. I won't discover True love and I won’t be so happy

With the man that deserves all my love.

Below are the links of my previous post ; not just to know me better but to be a living testimony to all of you that all of us go through our own pains but all of it will surely pass. God is good because of all the struggles in my past life. God has now blessed me with people and things more than what I have prayed for. I have still unanswered prayers in my life but I believe all will come on its proper time. 

  
My life is a living proof. All of the situations in our lives are just a part of our journey. Life can be so unfair at times and sometimes we have to learn it the hard way but in the end we will be smiling. Because looking back we have just thought that it was done for a purpose. It is a part of what we call Life. 

 Previous post:

A warrior behind a mother's last cry

When life doesn't make sense

Reflections

  

♥ ♥ ♥

Our Most special day
Acceptance
Always and forever
Blessed with a miracle

☺ ☺ ☺

Trials are not the reason to give up but a challenge to improve ourselves.

Difficulties are not excuses to back out but an Inspiration To Move Forward.

Something, somewhere, that I long to find
I am learning, slowly, one day at a time
That if I loose and fail, I'll be fine

I'm moving on
And I'm gonna get stronger now
And nothing will break me down
I will not give in to doubt
Those days are gone
I can be who I wanna be
And start living my life for me
I believe it finally
I'm moving on

**destined to be ♥

"Missing someone gets easier everyday because even though you are one day further from the last time you saw them, you are one day closer to the next time you will."

 

When I miss you, I always listen to music, read your love letter and look at your pictures , not just to remind me of you but to make me feel as if I'm with you. It makes me forget the distance and feel my love for you. At my age I have never felt so much love even from a far, your love for me is so strong.

♥ ♥ ♥

As I was listening to the song on your site last night it made me really cry. It made me feel really blessed for you having me to be a part of your life. You have accepted the "real me" and my kids. You have not asked questions and have no hesitations though you have known my past.Certainly and I will say this over and over again..I have never loved like this before.You are the only man whom I will be giving my whole heart to.

If God permits and when the right time comes..this is my reply to your song..these three words you will hear me say ..

"Yes I do"

..I am holding on not just because I love you so..but because of US-our future FaMiLy ToGeThEr..

..I won't let go because I have no plans being with anyone else..ONLY With YOU..

..I will stay because I have always believed that this TrUe LoVe will LaSt FoReVeR..

I have also a song for you Quiet Angel ..it made me cry because every word was meant only for you ♥ ♥ ♥

I pray that our love won't ever change because I have always believed in our love..a love that is true..a love that has a commitment to last for a life time  :)

..comfort**

Not because of who you are or what you can give. It is Who I am when I am beside you ♥♥♥

*Start Counting ☺

“I like to play with the stars.” When I was young I use to sit in front of our doorsteps at night to have a good view of the sky. I usually play with the stars while I am gazing at them every night. Sometimes I would even wish for all of my dreams to come true.

My father, curious about what I meant by that, asked. “How do you play with the stars?” I answered, “I pick out one and say, that’s my papa, mama, grandpa, grandma, my friends, my dog.” And I just keep on naming the stars after people or things I am thankful for.

Until now at my age I still love gazing at the stars every night. Seeing those stars makes me realize that even if I have gone through tough times in my life. Counting those stars I will surely count on and on. God has blessed me with my two lovely kids, quiet angel who is God’s gift to me, my parents, my virtual friends, my grandparents, how God gave me the strength to move on, and the life that He has given me.

Honestly now,” There’s just aren’t enough stars to count on God’s blessings in my life.”

Do you ever feel this way when you think about the many blessings our Lord has showered on us? From time to time people and circumstances come into our lives that made us feel loved, important and special. It is always good to remember with gratitude for the gifts that our Lord has given to us and have a promise to take care of them.

Have you counted your stars lately and realized how our Lord has showered you with blessings? Maybe you just have to sit down and pause for a while and be grateful for the persons and things you have been blessed of ♥♥♥

..Something To Say~

The consequences of what we speak are so great that our words can lead us to ruin or build lives.

It’s been estimated that a talkative person may speak 30,000 words a day. But the important question is how do our words, whether few or many affect others?

Have you been with someone who usually speaks discouragement and pain to

someone? Or someone who usually says those words you wanted to hear but the person’s actions does otherwise? Many people can say I love you and I miss you but their actions crash your heart and betray you behind your back. They can say promises but in the end they will just leave you and walk away. Leaving you alone, full of false hopes and worst hurt!

Some of us sometimes spend more time bragging about what we are planning to do for our future but not actually doing it.  Others just simply say promises but have no intentions of doing. A person who blurts out words without weighting the effect on them.

Have you met these types of persons? Or are we guilty being one of them?

Different situations but one culprit..Words..Our words can justify us or condemn us.

 Hearing it can give us joy; it can bless and express happiness within us. It can dispel sorrows, heal wounds and removes despair. Words with love can always mend a broken heart and cure a deaf heart.

But these same words can be used to curse and break hearts, destroy reputations, create strife, break stable relationships and set families apart.Painful words can hurt more and it can ruin one’s whole being. What we say can either build up or breakdown the soul of whomever we are speaking to.

Before we talk let us always remember we are speaking to the same person like us. Let us think first before we speak. The person we are speaking too can also feel loved or hurt. We can cause destruction to someone’s life or mend a broken heart. We can give joy to a lonely soul or end up giving someone despair. 

Let us always remember: Kind Words Can Give A Lift To A Heavy And Wounded Heart..but it will be useless unless we mean it :)

♥♫♥

--Acceptance..

Only when I learned to love myself unconditionally..When I accepted the real me..That’s when I learned to truly love..

Knowing that there is no perfect you..Then on you will know that there is no  such thing as a perfect relationship..But you are already prepared to face those differences that you and your partner have because you have already accepted that in true love..it is also loving your individual differences.

♥♫♥

♥♫♥

True happiness does not depend only on those happy moments you have with each other..But also on remembering those moments when you are alone..It won’t depend much on his physical presence but on how he does remember and care for you despite the distance.

 

True love won’t depend on the material things that he gives..but on every promises that you believe..And those simple things that he can do for now..it is not how much you get..But on how you are willing to give and learn with him..Being happy even on those shortest times you are with him..Just hearing him breathe makes you feel secure that your love one is safe.

 It is not on the things that he does..just to prove his worth and how ready he is  for your future family..but on the time he is willing to spend with you now..just being happy that he is more than willing for you to be a part of his life.

It is when he says even if he can’t hold your hand now..But he wants to hold your hand forever..even if you won’t hear his voice everyday..His love for you won’t ever change..Those words that pierce your heart.

That even when small misunderstandings happen..You know he will always be there..You are willing to hold on..That one-day all those hopes and promises will become reality..One day both of you will finally be together..Soulmates that are destined to be ONE  forever.

You and I
Cannot hide
The love we feel inside
The words we need to say
I feel that I
Have always walked alone
But now that your here with me
There'll always be a place that I can go
  and suddenly our destiny
Has started to unfold
When your next to me
I can see the greatest story
Love has ever told

☺♥ ♥♥♥♥ ♥♥♥ ☺

``Heart Locket Award..

 

Another award has been given to me and it was my pleasure receiving this award because it was made by Dana of Sisters Diaries..this award is called a "Heart Locket Blog Award" and it is given to those people whom you want to share your Love because their blogs are always lovely.

Thank you sooooo much sis..you never failed to surprise me..I love looking at it..because for me a heart locket means it is only given to a special person whom you want to keep :)

The Rules:

• If you get the Award, Pass it on to 7 Blogs 
• Put in the picture of the Award  on your post, just right click and save as Image.
• Don't pass this award back to me.
• Answer those Questions Below and post it in your blog.

Questions:

Only 2 Questions, because it is good to know you better!

1) What makes you feel great about yourself ?

• I always feel great when I wake up in the morning. I have a heart ailment so honestly each day is so important for me. Thanking our Lord for giving me another day to play with my kids, hear quiet angel's voice, receive a text from my parents making sure that we are safe and a chance to love and take care of them.

• I always feel great about myself when I know that I have given all my best. I really don't mind if I receive same love because what is more important to me is giving my all to those persons who deserve my love so i won't have any regrets in the end. Doing all I can for them while I still have time.

•  I always feel great when I have survived every test in my life. Standing up again and moving on even though how painful that experience was. I am also weak and I cry a lot but knowing that our Lord is always there guiding me and I am surrounded with people who loves me..knowing that I am not alone in this journey makes me feel really great :)
  

2) Who inspires you most? Also be more specific , which qualities inspire you, in each person?  you can list as many people you like

• Our good Lord - Many people have come my way but most of them left me when I needed them the most. It is so hard when you feel you are so down and confused with your life and no one was there to listen. God was the only One whom I turned to. No matter how painful where those experiences I know God has always been there listening to my every cry. I have lots of unanswered prayers but I know he will fulfill it in His time. God is good all the time :) 

• Quiet Angel - Since he came my whole life changed. He has not only been a listener but he made me see and bring back my self-worth. As I always say he is God's gift to me.Until now I can't stop loving him more each day. He is so sweet,kind,loving,understanding, both of us sing songs before we sleep. He always inspired me to give out my best. He made me feel loved and special even on his most simple ways. I can't explain how much love I have for him and this page won't be enough to describe the qualities that I love about him. "Eyebrows raised?? - I just love him!!!!!! ok I know quiet angel you are reading this now and you are smiling..ok I forgot to tell them your the cutest as what you say hehehe..but for me your handsome weeeeeee..

•  My kids - They are my strength. They always make me laugh and their hugs and kisses are my rewards of being a Mom. Being a single mom is not easy but seeing their smiles have always make me proud and hold on to my life. They have been into a painful experience but they have grown up to be sweet and kind-with that I am proud to be their Mom. I love them so much-they are my life.

Dana this is my simple token of appreciation for you..Thank You Again :)

NOW I PASS THE AWARD TO: I would Love to the pass this award to all of my friends here but I have only to give it to seven.All of you are soooooo special to me..but I have to follow the rules..so Please don't go :( .. I have a hard time thinking huhuhu..

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